Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Friends for Life..

True friends never leave each other, even if one of them is walking on the wrong path of life…However, try to correct the other in a way that it does not hurt the ego of the other friend. Friends don't mind when mistakes are pointed out; rather they try to accept it and change themselves for the better.

True friends are those, who inspire others to become a better person in life. I can safely say that lonliness is the most painful feeling in the world. Its that feeling you get when you realize that society is too flawed to recognize those that dont fit in. All anyone ever wants is a chance to be loved and accepted, but sadly thats more than people seem willing to give. My lifes not terrible. Its not that people dislike me. i have friends. its the fact that most people dismiss me as unimportant. no one tries to get to know me which is the only way i can really get to know others. I feel invisible or something.

Sometimes all i want is just one person in my life to know everything there is about me and understand me. sometimes the lonliness gets to you. i keep going though. It hurts but it also strengthens. Im me and if people dont want to get to know me its their loss. I know there are a lot of lonley people out there who just want to give up, but you can't. I no one else will love you then learn to love yourself. be yourself to the fullest extent possible. dont give up. love yourself. be something unique. show the world what they are missing.

Most problems with friendships come up because people are just too selfish to care about the things that their friends need. They care about their own needs much more, which makes it hard for friendships to work. However, being selfish is part of human nature. A person is put together in order to take care of themselves and their own needs, not necessarily those needs of other people. Even though being selfish is something that all humans are programmed to do, it is something that everyone should guard against.

The best thing to remember when you are a friend to anyone is that you need to treat your friends the same way that you'd like to be treated. This is wonderful advice for a friendship, because it is really the only way to make sure that you are giving your friends everything you would want to be given in a friendship. Whenever you have a question about how you should treat a friend, it is easy to find an answer simply by asking yourself what you would like your friend to do for you, if he or she was in your shoes.

Even if you're always thinking about how you'd like to be treated, and your friends are too, there are issues that come up from time to time in each friendship, and it is important to understand how to deal with these issues so that you can build stronger and healthier friendships. Issues like friends getting boyfriends or girlfriends and not spending enough time with their friends, or even friends finding new friends and leaving old friends behind are issues that will probably come up with one or more of your friendships. It is important to know how to deal with these friend changes so that you can keep your friends and make new ones. No one wants to have to endure a broken friendship.

Friend issues have to be dealt with, even if it seems tough to do. If you don't think that you know how to deal with your friend issues on your own, it might be a good idea to seek someone's help. Other friends, or parents or even counselors at school can give you advice about how to handle some of your friend issues. Once you know how to handle some basic friend issues, you can figure out how to handle others on your own. And you will also know that you can be better.

A chapter of my life

Where to begin...Well I've let myself do a quick search in an environment that I've always been to. I studied every person that walks pass me. But I restlessly looked around hoping for someone, then I realized that I found this person, but suddenly this thought passed through my mind where this person's head snapped up, probably having that feeling that someone is staring at you. well, its like I don't see anyone accept that person I'm glazing at...But I see that person in the sunlight shadows and in the corner of light, a glimpse, a memory a thought a smell, a bump in the night. These still all are deb for me. I find myself walking at 11:00 and at three, in search of that person, where that person got to now?

then, I remember that person no longer need me...Silence in my mind... Lately, my thought grab me in the dark stealing my sleep. I wonder now if I will ever sleep again. How can Deb be gone possibly be that person. The most valuable person I've ever met. ..But here is the thing...Isn't it funny how at some points in your life, you think that everything is going so perfectly well and yet it always ends up badly? You spend hours trying to figure out why you're doing it all wrong all the time, why you always end up broken. You must be doing something wrong, obviously. It is said that through life, you make mistakes, time passes and you eventually learn from them. In my case, it's the total opposite.

I keep making mistakes yet I never learn. What is a tear? Is it just a drop of water which comes out of our eyes? Is it just a drop of water gliding down the aisle of our cheek to reach the chin? Is it just a drop of water which escapes for freedom and takes the plunge of death from our chin till it hits the floor? Or is it something else? Something beyond what words could ever describe? A tear is a feeling, an emotion. It is not released by our eyes or our mind. It is released from somewhere much stronger, yet too sensitive. From deep down in our hearts. But what causes our heart to release this tear? A broken arm? A broken leg? Or the broken heart itself?

When the heart releases a tear, it does not mean that we are weak or we can't hold on any longer. But it means the total opposite. It means that we have been strong and struggled for way too long and it is time to let go. Let the past be the past and let the present guide us to a better future. A future, hopefully, with no mistakes, no pain, no tears, no heartbreak So here is a life lesson to anyone who might be reading this. A lesson which might lead to a simpler life with as less problems as one could ever face. A fact: The minute - no, let me rephrase that, the second - you start to care, is the moment you start getting hurt.


Monday, January 30, 2012

My Journey -Graphic design..

Design is a plan for arranging elements in such a way as best to accomplish a particular purpose. Everything is designed. Few things are designed as well. There no design without discipline. There no discipline without intelligence. I've always held to the belief that the practice of creating compelling graphic design occurs by employing the principals of a democracy, but rather, that of a monarchy. But Every designers' dirty little secret is that they copy other designers' work. They see work they like, and they imitate it. Rather cheekily, they call is inspiration. However, people think that design is styling. Design is not style. It's not about giving shape to the shell and not giving a damn about the guts. Good design is a renaissance attitude that combines technology, human need, and beauty of produce something that the world didn't know it was missing....Whats the world want is what it wants from your creation. Your born to create your dream; and a living.

Follow my dreams..

What motivates me to reach my dream...Well...I wrote a poem from couple of days ago reminding me each day to follow my dreams... and here it goes..

I get laughed at, I get ignored. I often feel trapped,and keep my thoughts stored. People can be cruel and very mean, but no matter what, I follow my dream, Life has waves, I know that, But I stand brave, and just take the crap. I may feel exhausted and totally creamed, but no matter what, I follow my dreams. I know what I want, and I won't stop trying, Quitting? I can't, for now I'm flying. It's impossible, it seems,...But no matter what, I follow my dreams.